Wednesday, April 17, 2013

Different Slices of Life


                             

I had the occasion to be in three or four different gatherings in recent weeks. It made me think ... before that the details

In Mysore I was attending a litigation case in a trial court regarding some land related issues. We were waiting in the court hall for the judge to arrive. Room was full of black dressed lawyers and some clients. One can sit down if there is a place but cannot cross legs as it would appear to show disrespect to the judge. The atmosphere is somewhat tense but not as much as I thought mainly because the cases drag on and many get adjourned. False cases, forged documents, clever lawyers, greedy ones, immoral lawyers who would do anything for money abound. (In an accident case, my lawyer  - client conversation: Any witness? Did you come across any one related to the person hospitalized? Have you seen the victim? Lawyer advises: say ' No ' to ' Did you hit?'  ' Did you see the injured ' etc. ಯಾರಾದರು ನೋಡಿದರ? ಏನು ಕೇಳಿದರೂಸುಳ್ಳುಅಂತ ಹೇಳಿ ಗೊತ್ತಾಯಿತ  ). Lawyer, a Jain, pious and clever man (ಇಹಕ್ಕೂ ಸುಖ ಪರಕ್ಕೂ ಸುಖ ಎಂದು ನಂಬಿರುವವರು ),  has Theerthankaras (ತೀರ್ಥಂಕರ ) exhibited prominently in his chamber under whose nose the conversation took place. 
Back to court. No clients are smiling although lawyers, even the opposing ones, smile, talk, laugh ... Outside it is chaos. So many people, so many lawyers and their assistants moving around hectically. Notaries sitting and waiting like vultures for someone to come. False cases are foisted and several lawyers and judges are busy for a long time and hundreds of documents get created, copied, falsified constantly. A huge waste which we can ill afford. When we talk of democracy  we forget what colossal drain on our resources such a system imposes. One might say it employs so many people but I wonder for what purpose. I am reminded of army men digging trenches and filling them later for want of better things to do.


The clients are from different strata of society - villagers and  town folk, literate and illiterate ;  an old man still hoping for something before he dies ;   Religion , caste , gender do not matter. Everyone is united by a greed more powerful than what their religious leaders, prophets, gurus have advocated as way of living. It is an unreal world. Second sin according to Christians. Lobha third in Arishadvarga - Kaama,Krodha, Lobha , Moha, Mada,Maatsarya  - ಅರಿಷಡ್ವರ್ಗ : ಕಾಮ,ಕ್ರೋಧ,ಲೋಭ,ಮದ,ಮೋಹ,ಮಾತ್ಸರ್ಯ,
It distorts and often destroys the person. I wonder what effect it has on lawyers over extended periods. Very dehumanizing.
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Lust (opposed by Chastity), Greed (opposed by Charity), Pride (opposed by humility), Sloth (opposed by diligence), Gluttony (opposed by temperance), Envy (opposed by kindness), and Wrath (opposed by forgiveness).

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The second occasion was standing in the queue for visa - first for finger printing and later for the visa. Finger printing day was cloudy (had rained previous night) with impending rains. The road is narrow with heavy traffic in both directions. Footpath has hardly enough width for people to stand. There are at least hundred people from the gate onwards. Gate is opened by an impressive (at least to himself) guard who has assumed importance. People are different now. Most of them young, most of them can speak English and appear well to do. They arrive in autos, taxis, cars accompanied by elder persons - usually parents. There is a gleam in the eyes, ' we are different ' attitude, ‘we have arrived ' - or almost - feelings all tinged with uncertainty. We wait for our turn, keep asking the guard and a team of two busy looking officials about what slot is going on.9 30 he says. A 10 30 man looks benignly at a girl and her mother with 12 30 pm slot. We look towards the sky and wonder when it would start raining. And then what? Files are in unprotected  covers and we clutch them to our bodies as we cannot allow the rain to spoil them. Everyone prays - let it not rain till I get in.

Again no one is smiling. No, that is not entirely true. There are a few who do. Ones who have attended it earlier and are through and come to help / show off to their friends. They offer free and serious advice. There is a distinct difference in demeanour, talk, gait when they get in and when they come out.  Somehow it was demeaning. I wonder about boat people ( trying to get into European country or USA ) , illegal immigrants trying various means to get into prosperous countries, our own Biharis and Oriya people , if not illegal, treated as illegal immigrants in Bombay…

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The third group was when I went to Narayana Hrudayalaya for a check-up after 4 years of my bypass surgery. Again there are hundreds of patients waiting for their turn to see cardiologists, surgeons for the first time or for a post-operative check-up. You can feel the gloom, fear, hope and trust. It does not matter if the doctor they have to meet  is John or Pravin, Jyoti or Kishore, Indian or foreigner. They want assurance that their Doctor is one of the best if not the best. There are patients who have undergone surgery earlier and somehow feel that they are beyond danger. One patient was telling a new one that he was operated by XXX six years back implying it is safe now. He misses the irony. It is possible he has exhausted a major portion of his quota (perhaps 10 years) and is in more danger than the other. He is blissfully unaware that he may be closer to yet another surgery or he might be beyond any intervention. I spoke to one person who was sitting next to me. He had stroke one month back and now is diagnosed with multiple blocks. It appears that surgery is risky and so also leaving it as it is. He is 50 years old with two young children. His wife wants someone to ' fill him with some courage' ( swalpa dhairya thumbi  ಸ್ವಲ್ಪ ಧೈರ್ಯ ತುಂಬಿ). Next to me is another woman. She was disillusioned with an earlier hospital and doctor for whatever reason. She wanted to know what had happened to me. I told her thinking that it might infuse some confidence in NH. She was not convinced that mine was the right case because according to her unless a valve is put in place surgery is not complete. I have no heart ( what I have is a damaged one with a bye pass; pj Papu would say )  to argue. Practically everyone is a heart patient of some sort or the other except the ones accompanying them. For whom the Bell Tolls? I wonder and that includes me!
Outside there are three places of worship - Hindu, Muslim and Christian - all joined together (ಸರ್ವ ದೇವ ನಮಸ್ಕಾರಂ ಕೇಶವಂ ಪ್ರತಿಗಚ್ಚತಿ ! ).  For me it does not mean much. Faced with death at last we seem to forget religious differences but not when life is in full bloom.  The place actually fills me with hope. One, I feel part of a larger group. Two, the irony as I see it - death is a great leveller. Thank God for that. Basic issues are the same for everyone. Three, you find unexpected streaks of courage, kindness and fortitude. There is definitely some dignity here.

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